★Why people want to influence in your way of thinking and acting?★

Why people want to influence in your way of thinking and acting? They really have the right to do that? It is logical that our parents and friends want the best for us, but that means that they have to change our way of being to make us think as they do? I believe that each person has the power to decide what he thinks and what he does, because if we all thought and acted the same way, this world would be very boring and there would be no diversity of opinion. However, not everyone think like this, many people prefer to influece in what others think and do. They interrogate you but they can not be content with what your answer to them. If you do not answer what they want you to answer, they try to persuade and convince you that what they think is appropiate and best for you. They try to change the way you are and your way of thinking and that frustrates. If you resist to listen to them it get worst and they become very irritable. Even if you try to evade them, they will always be there to annoy you and make you doubt. That's why it's important to speak clearly with them, explain how you feel and let them know that you appreciate all the advices they gave you but you're the only person who decides what thinks and what does with his life.