★All men are born to be parents?★

       All men are born to be parents? That's something I've asked myself several times. However, every day I'm more convinced that not all men are born to be parents. Many of them are very astute to impregnate a woman, but when it comes the time to raising a child, they go away and we don't know about them until the child grow. Meanwhile women are the ones that fight and do everything possible to succeed with their children, provide them the best example and a great quality of life. But then, when the father come back and see their grown up child, well-bred, with excellent notes, and a promising future, that is where they pretence to be the most loving and paternal father of the world.They begin to talk about that they feel sorry for not being with you when you were growing up and that in spite of all they always have been outstanding in everything about you and your needs. Yeah of course! That is their finality, manipulate you in a facile way. At first you listen to everything he says, then you start thinking like WOW how cruel I was when I thought that he was an insensible person who doesn't care anything about me. So in that moment you decide to give him the chance to share more with you. The first few weeks he call you every few minutes to hear from you, know how you are, what you've done and to see you because he miss you much, but then is very interesting to see how that fantastic love and interest in you start to disappear, he just call when he need you or when he is in hospital at the edge of death. He don't really care about you, he didn't care before and he will not care later, so the best thing that you can do is be away from him. Being with your mom is the best thing to do, she has given you all and thanks to her you are who you are in the present, so you do not need anything from your father. In conclusion, people have nothing to envy from other people who live with both parents because they might not have those two but they have a mother that can offer them the love of both and much more.